I do not have it. I have never had it. I will probably never have it. And since I have never faced it, it's hard to have empathy for someone that has to face this every single day.
There are so many people online that struggle daily with this. That find it difficult to ask directions and find it difficult to call people and find it difficult to even contemplate asking someone else on a date. All of those things were hard for me at one point, but after I did it the first time it wasn't a challenge again. Asking a girl on a date is always a bit of a scary endeavor, but it's never scary to the point that I have a paralyzing fear arise inside of me and voices whisper inside my head telling me that I'm useless, worthless, pathetic, and horrible.
It's hard to understand something you've never faced. And I don't really know how to help people. So I just try to be there for people and let them know that they can talk to me. I'm fairly good at not judging at first. Everyone judges at some point, whether we want to admit it or not. It's hard not to sometimes.
Anyway, on to more boredom.
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